Friday, April 19, 2013

A Fallacy of the Faith Message/Message of Faith


There are many truths sugar coated in error in different modern day messages in the church.  I’ll cover the faith message or the message of faith.  Paul said that some preach Christ out of envy and strife, not out of goodwill.   The good thing is that they are preaching Christ.  Philip 1:15.  We are not to forbid their preaching.  They are our brothers and sisters in Christ.

One of the problems of the current teaching called the Faith Message is it reminds of a Santa Claus God that we are teaching it’s better to receive gifts than to give.  This is contrary to the nature of God, God is a giver, as believers we are to be givers.  It is more blessed to give than receive.   Once we really become a true giver in life, it will turn our life around.  If we are a generous giver it’s an “automatic” that we will reap bountifully, but it’s really not giving to get, its letting God’s nature  becomes a part of our inner nature. We are new creature’s in Christ.  God’s nature is giving and our new nature is a giver.  It’s a “natural” response to letting our new nature gain it’s way or ascendency and living in the Spirit to be a giver.  Our new nature is pleasing to God.

In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: 'It is more blessed to give than to receive.' " Acts 20:35

Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. 2 Cor. 9:6

Many of the faith people use the prodigal son’s elder brother as an example.   The elder brother had his father’s good things/inheritance all along, but he lost his joy in serving the Father.  It’s sort of like how I bought a membership at Bally’s Health and Fitness Club 20 years ago and it’s $50 a year to renew. I kept it renewed and then it transferred to LA Fitness. But it’s how much I take advantage of using my wonderful membership is up to me.

But he answered his father, 'Look! All these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. Luke 15:29

Well, exercising can be a joy and at times, but most of the time it is “work.” The elder brother was complaining that he continued to “slave” or work so he started getting bogged down with working for his dad.   Many people can get bogged down in life with many cares, worries, the work of the ministry and lose their joy as a Christian.  

The Lord spoke to me that if I would exercise I would be happier.  People who exercise usually are happier, they release Endorphins, less stress and depression, feel better about themselves and have more energy, but I know that God was not talking about physical exercise that profits little, God was talking about exercising my faith.  It’s because I get lazy, and I don’t want to pray and believe God.  Sometimes I say, “God can you just hand me that bottle of milk—stick the bottle in my mouth like I do to my grandson?  I’m tired of praying and believing you in life, and exercising my faith and patience for everything.

We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has been promised. Hebrews 6:12

I’m a hitchhiker.  I used to hitchhike off my husband’s intelligence when I was reading a magazine or newspaper I did not know the big words because he was a walking encyclopedia.  Now I have to use Google.  I don’t want to get my own car in life.  I don’t want to look for a house, a job, or another husband.  Can you just drop them all from the sky Lord?   Well, He does at times, but most of the time I have to do my part.  Even Rebecca was willing to come with Abraham’s servant and that was a step of faith to leave her country without even physically seeing Isaac.   Abraham left his home town.

I call up the elders of the church and I say, “Can you please agree with me that I have better people who want to rent in my house.”  But my hitchhiking does not work all the time.  I had beginning stages of arthritis prayed for in my knees and when the pain came back I thanked God 2 or 3 times before the pain went away two years ago and has not come back since.  I agree that we have to use our own faith at times.  The prayer of agreement works for the healing, but at times I’m on my own like Paul living in some jail cell and have to get my own encouragement to keep my healing.  David found himself like that in his cave experience where his men even wanted to kill him.   He had to encourage himself in God.

But It’s more than taking advantage of our rights and privileges in Christ.  The elder brother failed to recognize what was important  to his own dad.  It brought joy to the Father’s heart to see his brother return more than 99 righteous people. The older brother was too jealous of his brother like Joseph’s brothers and thinking about himself. 

My husband bought a boat and wave runners to spend more time with his children, but it did not work.  His children were too busy to spend time with him.  God gives us good things, but then many people are so busy with all the distractions and things to seek God.  I find when I pray for other’s finances, pray for their relationships, pray for their healing and go minister to others, it seems that my needs get met according to God’s riches in glory. 

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33

Payback from laying up treasures in heaven eventually come back in this lifetime.  Mark 10:30.  My husband and I were the happiest people on the planet because we were busy in loving and serving each other, our family and the community.  The faith message does not teach that the elder brother was too focused on his own needs rather than the needs of his own dad.   Love seeks not its own way.  1 Cor. 13

I had a similar experience in my own marriage about one year after I got married.  I thought “Wow I  married a real dud.”  It’s one of those fire crackers that you thought is great and then it fizzles out over time.   It’s because my husband was not romantic when I would see other couples with their arms around each other at concerts.  I was like his teddy bear that he would drag along to sit next to him, but ignore the rest of the night at a concert.  I was lonely and miserable in my marriage.

He would come home after dinner and go in his man cave (headphones with music) and expect me to sleep every night with a complete stranger.  I learned to set boundaries to slow my husband down at night and also I kept reaching out to hold his hand, put my arm around him and cuddle at night and do my part and I found that he changed, he became more affectionate.   He was not raised in a huggy/kissy environment with his parents.   His dad does not hug, kiss or hold his mother.  He did get some affection from his grandparents is what his sister told me.  The point is when I kept meeting my husband’s needs rather than getting bitter about my needs not getting met, my needs got met in the process.

At times if I have a back pain out of the blue, I’ll ask God to make intercession for me for someone who may be experiencing a back pain.  I walked into East 91st Street Christian church one Sunday morning and as soon as I walked in the door I had a migraine headache.  Within seconds they shut down the women’s bathroom for a medical emergency and would not let anyone in the bathroom.  I started praying for that person because I believe the headache was a “spirit of intercession” I picked up.  Same experience when a branch fell on my car and I freaked out for a minute when I could not see anything.   My friend called me on the cell phone and at the exact same time the stage at the Fairgrounds fell down and some people were injured and killed due to wind.  As the body of Christ, I want to be sensitive to do my part and be more sensitive to pray for others who are in crisis and need. 

I’ll cover in my next blog about abasement which I don’t believe the Faith message covers, but it will be a different perspective than you probably thought about.  The Lord showed me that we are prisms of light and each of us sheds light as different colors as a rainbow.  We have a different perspectivie.  The faith message has some good points/perspectives that I agree with, but I believe we need to “rightly divide” the whole word of God.

Work hard so you can present yourself to God and receive his approval. Be a good worker, one who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly explains the word of truth. 2 timothy 2:15

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