Monday, November 12, 2012

Murder, Rape, Betrayal, Child and Spousal Abuse...Does Time Hide Sin?



Why did Paul give us these two scriptures below, why didn’t Paul say, “Father forgive them, they don’t know what they are doing.”  Why are we leaving room for God’s wrath in our lives?

Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. Romans 12:19
Alexander the metalworker did me a great deal of harm. The Lord will repay him for what he has done. 2 Timothy 4:14

Joseph was a type of Jesus Christ.  After Joseph’s brothers tried to kill him and sold him into slavery, his brothers came to Egypt to buy food during the famine that hit their land too, and then they ran into Joseph who was second in command to Pharaoh.  Did Joseph just accept and forgive his brothers?  It was at least 20 years since Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery and Joseph “tested” his brothers to see if they had a repentant heart.  

Joseph put a silver cup in his brother’s bag and then had them arrested accusing them of stealing.  He was testing his brothers to see if they had a conscience of doing wrong.  Even threw all of them in jail overnight, and then kept one in the place of Benjamin.  Without a true repentant heart, Joseph would not have been able to restore his relationship with his brothers, and how would there have been healing if they still harbored jealousy and hatred against him? (Genesis 43 and 44)

Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him. 1 John 3:15

When a horrendous crime is committed what do victims want to know from the person who committed the crime?  Does that person have any remorse or conscience about the crime when the person is caught?  That is the same sentiment that God is also looking from us is a repentant heart. What does this scripture mean about God having mercy, and then it talks about Pharaoh was a vessel of wrath?  Because Pharaoh hardened his heart believing he is a god, rather than repenting.  When we harden our heart, and we don’t believe we need forgiveness for something we do wrong, than are we saying that we are god (we do not need forgiveness for our actions).  We are putting ourselves on the same level of God.

Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden. Roman 9:18
What if God, choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath--prepared for destruction? Romans 9:22

Is God responsible for his actions?   No, because God does what He is going to do.   God is a God without iniquity. Why did the leaders in Jesus time kill Jesus?  Because he put himself on the same level of God in forgiving sins as the son of God.

He is the Rock, his work is perfect: for all his ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is he. Duet 32:4 & 2 Samuel 22:31
Which is easier: to say, 'Your sins are forgiven,' or to say, 'Get up and walk'? Luke 5:23
Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven--for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little." Luke 7:47

Only one thief on the cross was told, “Today you will be with me in paradise." In separate accounts of the gospels, both thieves mocked Jesus, but later only one thief  regretted his actions.

One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him: "Aren't you the Christ? Save yourself and us!" But the other criminal rebuked him. "Don't you fear God," he said, "since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong." Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." Jesus answered him, "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise. Luke 23:39-43

Many people get under condemnation about not trusting certain people whose track record has proven untrustworthy.  Saul headed down this path of disobedience and rationalization where David could not trust Saul, because he wanted to kill him.  This is a good example of a believer who has shipwrecked his faith since Saul did have a relationship with the Lord.  David did not take Saul’s life, trusting that God was able to take care of the problem and Saul killed himself rather than let the enemy make sport of him and capture him.  Same way with Hitler in killing himself when the armies of Germany were defeated.   We can’t really tell with Judas if at the end he regretted killing Jesus, he may have truly regretted betraying Jesus for money.

Nothing bothers me more is when myself or others have no conviction or repentance for doing wrong.  When apathy, lack of concern and/or no repentance is in the church, that is more disturbing (a lack of conscience for doing wrong).  The Bible talks about a “great falling away from the faith.”

Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, Matthew 24:12
Let no man deceive you by any means: for that day shall not come, except there comes a falling away first, and that man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition; 2 Thess. 2:3

Paul was upset with the Corinthian church because when a brother was overtaken in a fault which was sleeping with his step-mother, rather than mourn the sin, put the person out of the congregation that did this, they got puffed up in pride. 

It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife. And you are proud! Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief and have put out of your fellowship the man who did this? 1 Cor. 5:1-2

He said to them, "You are the ones who justify yourselves in the eyes of men, but God knows your hearts. What is highly valued among men is detestable in God's sight. Luke 16:15

That pretty much sums up why many people don’t reconcile situations with an ex-husband or ex-wife, because there is no remorse, conviction of doing anything wrong to their ex-spouse.  This can even result in the escalation of physical violence and abuse.  The only thing I can determine is that somewhere in that abuser’s mind that they believe the woman and/or children (victims) are guilty to be punished by shooting them or beating on them.  God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and it’s in relation to a person’s hard heart.   The Bible warns in the last days there is going to be a great falling away and that parents and family will even betray others.  Believing spouses betray each other in the faith so the falling away is already happening.

Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child. Children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death. Mark 13:12
The sins of some men are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them. 1 Timothy 5:24

I encouraged a woman who had an alcoholic husband who kept beating on her and three children at my church to get out of the situation, and she sent me a letter that she finally left him and found a married couple in a another state to live with.  She kept going back to the abuser when he said he was sorry, and he would attend church, but then he was back drinking alcohol and beating on her and the children again.  It was not “godly sorrow” that leads to repentance.  Some people may be sorry that they lose their family or children and they are like Esau who had tears for losing his birthright, but it was not a repentance that leads to the change of one’s actions.

Just as it is written: "Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated." Roman 9:13
Afterward, as you know, when he wanted to inherit this blessing, he was rejected. He could bring about no change of mind, though he sought the blessing with tears. Hebrews 12:17

God wants us to show mercy and the example of showing mercy is the man in the temple that humbled himself and repented.   A person who gives no mercy to others and does not repent will not receive mercy.  Repentance is the key to mercy.   When we try to restore a person in a fault, it says to “consider ourselves.”  When Peter saw Jesus, he said, “Lord depart from me, I am a sinful man. Luke 5:8”

When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout, "Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!" Mark 10:37
Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Galatians 6:1

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable: Luke 18:9:

The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other men--robbers, evildoers, adulterers--or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.' But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.' I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." Luke 18:11-15

Commentary: 

You can’t hide from your sin. Time does not erase the guilt of your sin. Only the blood of Jesus can. Through this chapter there is remarkable evidence of the changed hearts of Joseph’s brothers. (Genesis 43 and 44) 

 ·      They did not resent it when Benjamin was given the favored portion (Genesis 43:34)
·       They trusted each other, not accusing each other of wrong when accused of stealing the cup (Genesis 44:9)
·       They stuck together when the silver cup was found. They did not abandon the favored son and allow him to be carried back to Egypt alone (Genesis 44:13)
·       They completely humbled themselves for the sake of the favored son (Genesis 44:14)
·       They knew their predicament was the result of their sin against Joseph (Genesis 44:16)
·       They offered themselves as slaves to Egypt, not abandoning Benjamin, the favored son, their brother (Genesis 44:16)
·       They showed due concern for how this might affect their father (Genesis 44:29-31)
·       Judah was willing to be a substitutionary sacrifice for his brother out of love for his father and his brethren (Genesis 44:33)

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