Friday, December 7, 2012

Paul's Contradictory Marriage Statements and Don’t Take the Christ Out of Christmas



I will try to get into the apostle Paul’s head during his times. As a believer with the danger of being fed to lions, my children fed to lions, and my spouse fed to lions for my faith in Christ, I may too say that it is better to be single, because of the current situation in life.   The temptation to deny Christ would be higher if they were threatening to kill my spouse or children.  All the apostles were killed except John who was banned to the isle of Patmos.

What I mean, brothers, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they had none; 1 Cor. 7:29
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. Romans 8:18

Many times when it comes to friends and family, people get offended when we become a believer.  In some countries, family can ostracize you.  I have had friends here in America that switched churches or religions where they were raised as children experienced persecution by their families.  My son had a friend who was from Iran who experienced persecution for his race during problems with Iran, and Japanese people in America experienced persecution during war with Japan.

We are in a war spiritually, and part of this persecution we know as believers is coming from the enemy!

Even Jesus home town were offended at him and a majority of the religious leaders except a few like Nicodemus who only would come to him at night for fear of persecution.   We are not above Jesus, if family and friends were offended at Jesus, they will be offended at us too.

Then they scoffed, "He's just a carpenter, the son of Mary and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas, and Simon. And his sisters live right here among us." They were deeply offended and refused to believe in him. Mark 6:3

I was driving through Starbucks one day and a the man who waited on me asked where I was going and I was too ashamed (embarrassed) to say I was going to a Bible study. As soon as I drove away immediately, I heard in my spirit. “But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.” Matthew 10:33.

I don’t believe it was the “Cat That Got My Tongue.”

I asked the Lord to forgive me for being ashamed of him and the next time I drove through Starbucks and the same man asked me where I was going, I told him I was going to a Bible study.  When John the Baptist was going through his trial with being put in jail by Herod, he had his disciples ask Jesus if he truly was the Messiah or if they should look for another? Matthew 11:3

Jesus replied, "Go back and report to John what you hear and see: “The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cured, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is preached to the poor.  Blessed is he that does not take offense in me.”  Matthew 11:6

Blessed is he that does not take the Christ out of Christmas. 

No one is “born” a Christian.  To be a Christian/believer you have to become as a little child and be born again.  I know when I placed a single’s ad for a Christian to date at 36 years old before I met my spouse, some men I talked to thought they were just born a Christian, or become a Christian from going to church with their parents.

And he said: "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 18:3

Paul warned that getting married can be a distraction, but then Paul contradicted himself and said, Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 1 Cor. 7:2

He said “every” man or woman.

There seems to be a several contradictions in the Bible.  The Bible says: “he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 16:22.  To find you have to be seeking, but then Paul said, “if you are loosed from a wife, do not seek a wife. (Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. 1 Cor. 6:27)

Then Paul counsels younger widows to marry because some had already turned aside after Satan in satisfying their earthly pleasures.

So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.  Some have in fact already turned away to follow Satan. 1 Timothy 5:14-15
Those that are living in pleasure are dead while they still live (1Ti 5:6)

The Islam religion wants to take over the world by having five children per family, and then churches are cutting single ministries and pastors, and preaching like Paul “do not seek to get married.’   Who is trying to wipe out the seed of the Christian population and marriage? Who tried to wipe out the Jewish population in Hitler’s day?  Paul said, “marriage is honorable in all, Hebrews 13:4”  God’s command to Adam and Eve was to “be fruitful and multiply.”  Before Eve was created God said it’s not good for man to be alone” and it talks about a man who has his quiver full of arrows/children is blessed (five male children constitute a quiver) Psalm 127:5

God said that he hates divorce (present tense) and he was seeking godly seed (children of believers).

Has not [the LORD] made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith Malachi 2:-15-16

What is comes down to is our love and zeal for God should be above all others and all things in our life.  Jesus said that our love for him in comparison to our love for others should be like hate.  It is the first commandment.

He answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" Luke 10:27
"If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:26

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