Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Party Like a Rock Star …Being Single Has Its Reputation:




I remember a couple of jobs I’ve had with single women sort of dragging themselves into work the next day with a hangover.  It reminds me of that Dido song, “Thank You.” I don’t see how singles go out a lot during the weeknights before work.  I would think the weekends would be enough, but apparently not for some.  I was out eating breakfast with someone on Saturday morning (well a late breakfast at Bob Evans), and we were talking about how Facebook is the tell-all with some who go out dancing a lot during the week. 

My sister and mother were always good about giving me a fun birthday party when I was small, later in junior high, I was allowed to have slumber parties.  My brother messed it up for me on the boy/girl party in high school, because his party ended up like that movie with Tom Cruise, “Risky Business” when he was supposed to have a small gathering of his friends.  It was probably 200 people that showed up at our house.  Someone threw something through the family room picture glass window, sat on the sink in the bathroom and broke the sink off the wall, etc.  That was the end of the boy/girl parties at the Brannon house while I was growing up!

Anyway, weekends are not enough for me so I have the worse reputation right now as a single widow that I was going to four single Bible studies a week. I’ve decided to cut back, because I’m getting too wild. I’m trying to avoid those women talking about me when they go draw their water at the well (at church).  I was just putting too many logs on that fire so I’m cutting back on Bible studies.   “Let’s give them something to talk about.  Talk about love, love, love, love.”

Many rock stars live a life of alcohol and  drugs.  It’s a lifestyle not conducive of a healthy life with traveling around on a bus, they eat a lot of restaurant food.  Reminds me of the single lifestyle.  My husband had tickets one time to see John Melencamp, but he had to cancel his concert at Verizon because of a heart problem due to his rock star lifestyle. 

I like to have single parties at my house now.  I’ve always wanted to host events at my house, but with teenagers when I was married and my step-son had this smelly big dog, it was too much to try to do that in the past.

My friend Brandy and I went to New Zealand on this single’s match-maker flight with the ABC television crew and Jason “The Bachelor” October of 2009.  Someone was asking if anyone matched up with anyone.  I told them, “Who cares, it was an excuse to travel and see New Zealand.” Same way, who needs an excuse to have a party?

Jesus liked a good party, or he would have not left ministry to go to a wedding.  It says that the wine he made was better than the wine they first put out (stronger).  Since his mother was at the wedding, it leads me to believe that it must have been a relative or someone close to the family. 

His mother said to the servants, "Do whatever he tells you." John 2:5

It’s a good philosophy to follow whatever Jesus tells you to do as Mary had learned.  The Lord spoke to me over two years ago that he wanted me to “strip off the robes” of my pride like David danced before him with a ephod, and post blogs.  It stripping off the pride, that means to get to the bare bones of being real with people.  I find that a lot of Christians put on “airs” or rather a phony persona of who they are and don’t really get down to the real nitty gritty of life.

David, wearing a linen ephod, danced before the Lord with all his might, 2 Samuel 6:14

The children of Israel liked a good party too, they had the Feast of Passover, Feast of Unleavened Bread,  Feast of First fruits, Feast of Trumpets, Feast of Pentecost, the Feast of Tabernacles (Harvest), and Feast of Yom Kippur /the Day of Atonement.

I did some wild partying and I’m very capable of being  a free spirit and once in a while I am pumping my car gas and I hear that Jimi Hendrix song, “Purple Haze” and I just remember that there was some stuff I was feeding my brain and it was not exactly tuna fish or “brain food.”   The scripture below rather sums up my life back then so there is just something to this Christianity stuff!

For the time that is past suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry. 1 Peter 4:23

One reason I married my husband is that he was one of the few Christian men that believed in having fun.  From sun up to sun down he loved to go boating and try to squeeze all the fun out of the life that he could.  I’ve never met such a free spirit in my life who lived life to the fullest.  I think it was because of all the close calls he had with death in his life due to asthmatic attacks. 

For, "Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful. 1 Peter 3:10 and Psalm 34:12-13

I laugh when I watch Chevy Chase in the Vacation movie, because life with my husband sort of reminds me of Chevy Chase, by golly come hell or high water, “We are going to have fun in life.”   I believe we should have that same determination in serving the Lord, although it’s not a struggle, because God does the willing and the working in us to do his will.

For it is God who is producing in you both the desire and the ability to do what pleases him. Philip 2:13

It says we are to serve the Lord with gladness and come before his presence with singing.  Psalm 100:2

I can understand why the apostle Paul said we can use our availability or singleness for Christ. 


Party Like A Rock Star



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