I could probably watch any carnal movie and get a spiritual opinion about it. So I’m not condoning this movie, This Means War, I’m just going to bring out something I liked about it. I could probably date any guy and list a few things I like about him. I’m not quite sure I could be “objective” with the movie Magic Mike so it relates back to what Paul said about false doctrine and there are some things, “taste not, handle not, etc.”
Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!"? Colossians 2:21
What I like about the movie is that the two friends who were battling to get to know their new girlfriend (the same person) wanted to find out what interested her so they put the CIA on her tail and put bugs in her house and followed her to find out what she likes. It’s sort of that saying, “Are you a fly on the wall.”
There are times I’ve wished I was a fly on the wall.
The guy in the movie picked this old decrepit dog...LOL...I remember I liked this guy one time and I told my friend that I did not want to put up with his dog and she said, "You can't separate a man and his dog." Well I noticed that Adam when he was looking at all those animals he never found a suitable companion. God had to make a woman. Although, it never said that a cat is not a suitable companion for a woman!
If a guy is really into you then he is going to make a concerted effort to find out what you enjoy and go do that with you. If a guy is “just not into you” and maybe he is into himself then he will care less. Now, I know there are some woman or a man that will cater to a person's every wish. Good luck with that. Maybe you get them and hook them, but let’s see how happy you are in the long run, when you keep putting your own needs aside. I know how women and men are more caretakers and tend to not set boundaries with kids and their spouse, and then that is why I’m running into Christian women and men leaving after 15-25 years of marriage, because there is nothing there and they are tired of being a slave. I’ve had that experience myself in previous relationships.
I also can’t help but notice some single groups that are like a female matriarchy where there are mostly women and then you have these men that remind me of Ahab passivists----where are the Joshua and Caleb single men? I ran into some of this with my husband when he told me his ex-wife persued him and asked him to marry her and he never dated in high school. His ex-wife was the only woman he dated seriously. I simply told him, “You will call me, you will chase me, you will propose to me and I don’t want to be exclusive.” If a guy is the one for you, then you don’t have to go begging on your knees for the guy. He will coming begging to eat out of your hands. I thought the last guy I was dating was going to be that way, but I was wrong. It was nice because many times he asked me to pick a venue for a date.
I have a guy friend who says he is a German Shepherd. Although, I may be looking for a Golden Retriever or a Collie (easy going), definitely not a yappy Pomeranian.
He signs his name,
Your favorite,
German Shepherd
High Energy, Loving, Always Wanting to Have Fun, Very Loyal
Well I do consider a lap dog is rather nice at times….LOL
I’ve heard of people putting a private investigator on a person’s tail and in this world, check out their friends, family and everything about them before you get very serious. There are several jobs I’ve taken in the past where I wished I would have researched the job better! It is like purchasing some house with a cracked foundation if you start dating a guy who has a cracked value system.
Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge, 2 Peter 1:5
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